Written by Beliza Kocev, Brazil Coordinator at Iron Rose Sister Ministries
I never liked my name. I wrote other names in all my childhood photo albums. I am not quite sure why this was the case, but I always felt like I had a weird and meaningless name (even in Portuguese, Beliza is not a popular name). No one else had that name, and everyone asked where it came from.
I also never liked my last name. In Brazil, Silva is a very common last name. Today, I recognize that I just wanted to feel special, and having a super common last name went against my desire. Throughout my childhood and early adolescence, I made plans to change my name at the registry office when I turned 18. I made plans to marry a man with a long last name so mine would be “special.”
I did neither.
I continue to be Beliza, and today I like that my name is unusual and that my mother dedicated time and thought to choosing my name (in fact, creating it)! Beliza is a rearrangement of my grandmother's name IZA-BEL -> BEL-IZA). And even when I got married, Silva remained (the registry office did not allow me to remove my last name— only to add my husband's name which, by the way, is not as long as I had imagined, ha-ha).
Whoever has ears, let them hear what the Spirit says to the churches. To the one who is victorious, I will give some of the hidden manna. I will also give that person a white stone with a new name written on it, known only to the one who receives it. (Rev 2:17 NIV)
I will receive a new name— I don't know what it will be yet— but like a father who chooses the name of his children, God will give me a new name, remembering that I am an adopted daughter and a part of His family— a name much more special than Beliza— an eternal name.
In the Scriptures, we see that a name is more than just a combination of letters. It is a representation of the essence of the person who bears it. When we say, “in the name of Jesus,” we are talking about Christ Himself, not just a combination of letters. “And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son. You may ask me for anything in my name, and I will do it” (Jn 14:13-14).
In addition, giving someone a name was a symbol of the authority one had over that person. Adam named the animals (Ge 2:19), and God had already said that Adam would rule over them (Ge 1:26-28). Joseph and Mary did not choose the name of their son— it was up to God to decide that He would be called Jesus (Mt 1:21). From time to time, we see God changing someone’s name as a symbol of a new status, as was the case of Abraham (from Abram), Sarah (from Sarai), and Israel (from Jacob).
A new name, a new status, a new identity.
May we have the strength and courage to remain firm in faith and receive our new name and crown: “Everyone who competes in the games goes into strict training. They do it to get a crown that will not last, but we do it to get a crown that will last forever” (1Co 9:25).
I don’t know whether you like your name or not, but knowing that our Father chooses an eternal name for us should make us grateful for His care and affection for us. It should help us remember that there is no greater love than this—to be called children of God. May we keep this in our hearts until the day the words of Revelation 22:4 are fulfilled: “They will see his face, and his name will be on their foreheads.”
