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  • I Don’t Know What to Say!

    retratoWritten by Liliana Henriquez, volunteerwithIron Sister Rose Ministries in Colombia

    My school days coincided with the beginning of Shakira's musical career. At the time, it was easy to recognize one of her fans: it was enough to see her wearing plaid pants. It was an impressive fashion! We all wanted to have some. And the funny thing is, it went without saying that we were fans of Shakira; our way of dressing communicated it on its own.

    Something similar happens with us as Christians. Many times, we don't need to say anything to communicate everything. Our attitudes, our words, and our way of living speak of who we are and who we follow.

    As Nila reminded us at our Spanish virtual class in June, bearing fruit comes naturally. A branch connected to the vine produces fruit because that is its nature. She doesn't have to make an effort to appear to be alive. The fruit appears as a result of remaining connected to the source that gives it life.

    In the same way, when we abide in Christ, fruit begins to manifest itself in our lives. It is reflected in our patience, in our way of loving, in our ability to forgive, and in the peace we experience even in the midst of difficult circumstances.

    But let's go a little deeper...

    Continuing with Shakira's example, it was not the same to wear plaid pants as it was to know all her songs. Those of us who knew the lyrics showed that we had really spent time listening to her music. There was more than just an outward appearance.

    Something similar happens with Jesus. When we spend time with Him through His Word, we begin to think, speak, and act in a different way. Our words reflect what fills our hearts, and our actions are evidence of the closeness of our relationship with Him.

    Sometimes we want to reflect Christ without spending time with Christ. We want to have the right answers, the right words, and the wisdom needed to help others, but we forget that all of that is born out of a close relationship with Him. There are no shortcuts to bearing abundant fruit.

    We need to spend time with God. It is in that space of intimacy that the Holy Spirit teaches us, transforms us, and reminds us of the truths we need in each moment.

    But the Advocate, the Holy Spirit, whom the Father will send in my name, will teach you all things and will remind you of everything I have said to you. (Jn 14:26 NIV)

    And if you ever feel afraid that you won't know what to say or how to share Jesus with others, don't worry. It doesn't depend on your eloquence or having all the answers. Your responsibility is to be available and willing to be an instrument in God's hands to encourage, instruct, comfort, and bless others. The Holy Spirit will take care of the rest.

    For the Holy Spirit will teach you at that time what you should say. (Lk 12:12)

    Have you ever experienced that, while talking to someone, a piece of advice, a word of encouragement, or a perspective comes into your mind that you hadn't planned to share? Maybe you came into that conversation thinking you didn't have anything important to contribute, and suddenly you found the exact words the other person needed to hear.

    I dare say that many of us have experienced something similar. And when it happens, we often ask ourselves, "Where did that come from?" There, we can see the work of the Holy Spirit using our lives to edify others. The wonderful thing is that God doesn't need perfect people to fulfil His purposes. He uses willing hearts, people who have learned to listen to Him and who are available to be led by Him.

    I like to think of this as a synchronization. Just as email is automatically updated on all connected devices, our minds and hearts align with God when we stay close to Him. The more connected we are, the more sensitive we will be to His direction, and the easier it will be to recognize His voice in the midst of everyday situations.

    So, what's the key?

    Stay close to Jesus. Spend time in His presence. Allow His Word to transform our hearts. And when the time comes to speak, trust that the Holy Spirit will put the right words in our mouths.

    Let God use you. When you walk close to Him, you will find that you do know what to say.

  • Lies of the Accuser That Hinder Us from Bearing Fruit

    Michelle updated 2024 1Written by Michelle J. Goff, Founder and Executive Director of Iron Rose Sister Ministries in Arkansas 

    “No, you don’t have to truly die to all of your old life…” “You can just give God this one area of your life and hold back the others…”  

    If the enemy can keep us deceived and distracted, our growth is stunted. We are cut off from the True Vine, and we no longer bear fruit.  

    God longs to bring about growth in our lives, but the growth must begin with death. Those who have been united with Christ in His death, burial, and resurrection through baptism, have accepted the gracious gift of new life in Him (Ro 6:1-4).  

    As with a seed, our spiritual walk begins with death. 

    Very truly I tell you, unless a kernel of wheat falls to the ground and dies, it remains only a single seed. But if it dies, it produces many seeds. (Jn 12:24). 

    23 Then he said to them all: “Whoever wants to be my disciple must deny themselves and take up their cross daily and follow me.24 For whoever wants to save their life will lose it, but whoever loses their life for me will save it. 25 What good is it for someone to gain the whole world, and yet lose or forfeit their very self? (Lk 9:23-25) 

    The “daily” facet of Jesus’ invitation is a challenge for me. Do I daily die to myself, my needs and desires, to seek His Kingdom and His righteousness? What excuses do I allow to derail me from my primary purpose to remain in the Vine, to love God and love others? 

    Using one of my mom’s favorite words, there is a “plethora” of excuses or lies I accept. I allow them to become hindrances to my own growth and the process of fruit bearing. Today, we are going to call out some familiar lies or excuses and replace them with truth. 

    To do so, we will use a Lie/Truth Chart from Who Has the Last Word? Cutting through Satan’s Lies with the Truth of God’s Word. First, we Recognize the Lie in our own words. Then, we Replace that Lie with Truth, again, in our own words. These are the first two columns. The last column is for Remembering the Truth through a specific Bible verse or passage of Scripture. 

    RECOGNIZE the Lie  
    (in your own words) 

    REPLACE the Lie with Truth (in your own words) 

    REMEMBER the Truth  
    (Bible verse) 

    You can keep doing <distracting activity>. There will be time later to read your Bible, pray, encourage a friend, reach out to a neighbor…  

    Doing <distracting activity> is keeping me from doing and being what God has given me the opportunity for today. 

    “But encourage one another daily, as long as it is called “Today,” so that none of you may be hardened by sin’s deceitfulness.” (Heb 3:13) 

    I just can’t do what it takes to remain in the Vine. I know the list of things I’m supposed to do, but is it even worth it? 

    To remain or abide in the Vine is to invest in a relationship with the One who loves me perfectly and created me to grow in Him. 

    ““As the Father has loved me, so have I loved you. Now remain in my love.” (Jn 15:9)  
     

    Fruit bearing is frustrating and exhausting work that is not worth the effort. 

    Remaining in God’s love, bearing fruit as He designed, is the ultimate source of complete joy. Even when I’m tired, God will help me find a way to do good. 

    “I have told you this so that my joy may be in you and that your joy may be complete.” (Jn 15:11) 

    “Let us not become weary in doing good, for at the proper time we will reap a harvest if we do not give up.” (Gal 6:9) 

    I am all alone. No one around me is striving to bear fruit or remain in the Vine. 

    Satan wants me to feel alone and compare myself to others. God has gifted me with a body of believers that face the same struggles. 

    “We do not dare to classify or compare ourselves with some who commend themselves. When they measure themselves by themselves and compare themselves with themselves, they are not wise.” (2Co 10:12) 

    The examples I have listed barely scratch the surface of the excuses the devil uses to deter us from Kingdom work and Kingdom blessings. In Christ, we can put all the accuser’s lies to death—the kind of death that brings life and later bears fruit. 

    What excuses does the accuser bring to your mind that you want to replace with truth? What lie does he use to invade your thoughts and distract you from bearing fruit? 

    The examples I have listed barely scratch the surface of the excuses the devil uses to deter us from Kingdom work and Kingdom blessings. In Christ, we can put all the accuser’s lies to death—the kind of death that brings life and later bears fruit. 

    What excuses does the accuser bring to your mind that you want to replace with truth? What lie does he use to invade your thoughts and distract you from bearing fruit?

  • Sarah’s Shortcut to Bearing Fruit: Trusting That God Will Bring the Growth

    LuziaWritten by Luzia Casali, volunteer with Iron Rose Sister Ministries in Rio Grande do Sul, Brazil

    When I was a teenager, I was extremely impulsive. Impatient. I wanted everything done yesterday. Toward the end of high school, my father gave me something to think about:

    "Luzia, it takes a hen 21 days to hatch an egg at a temperature of 98.6°. What would happen if I raised the temperature to 120°?"

    I replied, "The egg would cook; there would be no chick."

    He asked again, "What if I took the egg away from the hen after 15 days?"

    I answered, "The chick wouldn't be ready."

    The moral of the story: In life, there is a right time for a task to be completed—neither sooner nor later.

    Just as I had an earthly father who gave good advice, we have a Heavenly Father who guides us in Jeremiah 29:11 (NIV): "For I know the plans I have for you," declares the Lord, "plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future."

    He is the One who holds the plans for each of us. These plans cover every area of our lives and unfold according to His timing.

    Discipleship training is one of those. We need to pray and trust God throughout the process.

    The Bible gives us an example of someone who tried to remove the egg before the chick was ready and suffered the consequences.

    Let’s consider the case of Sarai in Genesis 16. God had made three promises to Abram in Genesis 13: a son, the land, and the Descendant. It was God Himself who made the promise, stating that Sarai would have a son. Feeling that the process was taking too long, she took matters into her own hands. She offered her Egyptian slave, Hagar, to Abram, and Hagar conceived. Believing herself superior to her mistress because she was able to get pregnant, Hagar began to look down on Sarai. Sarai, feeling disrespected, began to mistreat Hagar—with Abram’s consent. Unable to bear the pressure, Hagar fled into the desert (pregnant, without food or water). However, our merciful God intervened and sent an angel who told her to return and submit to Sarai. Yet, He instructed Hagar to name her son Ishmael—which means "God hears"—and prophesied that he would be a rebellious and independent man, constantly in conflict with others.

    The Ishmaelites were, in fact, a contentious people, living in constant hostility toward all their brethren (Ge 25:17–18).

    They were nomadic traders who even dealt in slaves. We must not forget that it was the Ishmaelites who bought Joseph from his brothers (Ge 37:28).

    Although Sarai took the egg before it hatched, God honored the promise He had given to Abram. Nevertheless, consequences followed—specifically, the Ishmaelites' conflict with other peoples. Yet God did not change His plans; He fulfilled the promise made to Abram: Isaac (the son), Israel (the nation), and our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ (the Descendant).

    Likewise, we cannot rush the training of disciples. There is a right time for each one to mature in faith and bear fruit. We must always bring disciples, their studies, and their quality time with the Father before the Throne of God.

    If we remove the egg too soon—fail to allow sufficient time for the disciple to be prepared for work in the Church—there can be various consequences. Here are a few of them:

    • Burnout and Frustration: The disciple faces responsibilities without the means to handle them, leading to stress, frustration, and discouragement—failing to disciple others and, in the worst-case scenario, an abandonment of the faith.
    • Division and Conflict: Immaturity and/or a lack of proper knowledge can lead to hasty decisions or unwise use of the Word, causing friction within the congregation.
    • Departure from Sound Doctrine: Without adequate knowledge, the disciple may compromise the preaching of the pure Word.
    • Wounds within the Congregation: Unprepared individuals can emotionally hurt other members due to a lack of discernment or psychological and/or spiritual preparation.

    Just as God had plans to send the Savior—plans that were not obstructed—we must realize that making disciples is part of God's plan: training them to make other disciples (Mt 28:19–20) and trusting that He is the One who brings the growth (1Co 3:6). We cannot try to take matters into our own hands as Sarai did because there will be consequences.

    My comfort lies in knowing that, just as God did not change His plans to send the Savior, He will not change His plans for the Word to be preached.

    May God bless us.

  • That's Not My Gift

    Abigail Becerra 1Written by Abigail Adriana Loayza Becerra, volunteer with Iron Rose Sister Ministries in Cusco, Peru

    Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow to become in every respect the mature body of him who is the head, that is, Christ. From him the whole body, joined and held together by every supporting ligament, grows and builds itself up in love, as each part does its work. (Eph 4:15-16, NIV)

    This is to my Father’s glory, that you bear much fruit, showing yourselves to be my disciples. (Jn 15:8)

    How many times have we heard or said: "That's not my gift"?

    We often say that when someone invites us to serve, to teach, to evangelize, or even just to listen. Without realizing it, that phrase becomes a shortcut to avoid commitment and an excuse not to participate in the mission that Jesus left us. It is true that God has given each of us different gifts. The Bible tells us that the body of Christ is made up of many parts and each one fulfills a different function: some teach, others encourage, others serve, others lead, others show mercy, etc., etc. And having different gifts does not mean that some believers are exempt from bearing fruit or making disciples.

    Ephesians 4 explains that each member of the body contributes something indispensable to the Church. When each member uses the gifts God has given them, the body grows, becomes stronger, and reflects the love of Christ. The problem begins when we hide our talents behind phrases such as "that's not my gift," "I'm not good at that," or "it's better for someone else to do it." Many times, it is not a lack of capacity, but fear, comfort, insecurity, or lack of willingness.

    Nor did Jesus say that only some should bear fruit. In John 15:8, He affirms that the Father is glorified when we bear much fruit and prove that we are His disciples. Bearing fruit doesn't just mean preaching from a pulpit. We bear fruit when we disciple someone, when we serve with joy, when we show hospitality, when we listen to those who need comfort, when we manage our resources well, or use our abilities to bless others.

    The gifts God gives us are not for our own benefit, but for the edification and growth of the Church so that others may know Christ. Every gift, every talent can be a tool to spread the Kingdom of God. Many times, we expect to feel prepared to serve, but if we are willing to use the gifts God gave us, even if we feel unprepared, He will empower us as we act in obedience (like Moses, Deborah, Gideon, and many more).

    Maybe your gift is teaching, singing, encouraging, evangelizing, organizing, cooking, writing, listening, administering, etc. No gift is too small when it is used with love, willingness, and above all, with the intention of glorifying God. One of the most important things is that we do not go around comparing gifts, but instead that we focus on being faithful to God with the gifts He has entrusted to us.

    When we stop making excuses and serve willingly and intentionally, and when each member decides to take the place God has prepared for them, we discover that God can do more than we can imagine. We will see lives transformed, we will see the Church grow, we will see people being strengthened. Let us not allow the phrase "that is not my gift" to prevent us from obeying Christ's call for us, but let us instead ask ourselves, "How can I use what God has already placed in my hands to bear fruit and make disciples?" In the end, we may not be remembered for the gifts we had, but rather for our faithfulness in using them for the glory of God.

    What gift, talent, or ability has God given you that you may have been putting aside out of fear or excuses, and how can you begin to intentionally use it to bear fruit and make disciples this week?