Written by Michelle J. Goff
I am a tremendous klutz. I have been known to trip on air. During certain hormonal times, my spatial orientation is askew, and I am especially clumsy. My keys get dropped, coffee in spilled, furniture jumps out in front of me to stub my toe, and the counter I plan to lean on is a few inches further away than I calculated. However, I have been assured I am not the only one.
Similarly, I have days when my speech is more clumsy and less considerate. The “thank you” gets dropped. Careless words spill out of my mouth. The minutia of the day frustrates me to the point of hindering a smooth walk through my checklist. The Bible verse I read that morning, fully intending to lean on throughout the day, seems like a distant memory. However, I have been assured I am not the only one.
On those less-than-perfect days, my internal frustration level is high. The negative self-talk can quickly spiral me into a devilish trap. However, God is not surprised by my shortcomings. The kind word of grace He offers provides me with a lifeline, freeing me from the trap. And ladies, I’m not the only one for whom this promise is true. His grace is sufficient for us, for His power is made perfect in weakness (2 Cor. 12:9).
When I accept the kind word of grace from God, I am more ready to extend a kind word of grace to others. A simple word of kindness, to ourselves and to others, can make all the difference in how the rest of the day goes.
Accepting God’s kindness can be the first step in extending that kindness to others (Matt. 18:21-35). Kindness is an invitation into relationship. We are drawn to those who are kind. Consistent kindness draws others to us and provides us with the opportunity to share the source of our kindness.
A kind word to ourselves can dissipate the anger, the frustration, the impatience, and the guilt. A kind word to others allows the Spirit to flow through us, to do His work, to guide, and to comfort. Remember, kindness is one facet of the fruit of the Holy Spirit (Gal. 5:22-23)!
What is a simple kind word we can share with ourselves and with others? What difference have you seen a kind word make in someone’s life?
“A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger” (Prov. 15:1).