(contributed by Wendy Neill)
She is one of my dearest friends. We went to the same college. We’ve lived in FOUR of the same places, usually at different times: Dallas, Abilene, Kansas City and Searcy. We both love long walks, especially when the weather is warm and the flowers are in bloom. Once a week for six years, we have walked together, talked together, and then prayed together. How are we different? I am exactly half her age. She is 92 and I am 46.
Effie is a woman of small stature and great faith. The Spirit of God just oozes from her every pore. Her smile and her open arms remind me how very much I am loved by God. When I think of wisdom and perseverance, I think of Effie.
When we are together, I do too much of the talking. I find it comical that the subject is often MY poor health. But even though she doesn’t talk as much or dole out advice, I still learn so much from her. I’ve learned how to be patient and loving toward my Mom who has Alzheimer’s, because Effie stood by her husband through Alzheimer’s, until his death in 2008. I’ve seen how she has continued to shine as a widow who is also a beautiful daughter of God. She serves people in the community by visiting with them at a dinner her church holds once a week. She has been part of ladies’ Bible studies, book clubs and trips to plays and concerts with friends. She misses her husband, but she keeps living an abundant life, as she is able.
When I worry about my children, or when I’m not seeing eye-to-eye on an issue with my husband, I can count on a wise word from Effie. It won’t be lengthy, but it will be just what I need.
What is the secret in the sauce? Prayer. No doubt about it. Effie relies on prayer. There is even a prayer room at the Red Bridge Church of Christ in Kansas City named after her. She prays daily for her family members, for the church and….. for me.
Do you have a woman in your life that exemplifies wisdom and perseverance? Consider making a little extra room in your schedule to spend time with her. Go on a walk. Get some coffee. And pray. Like iron sharpening iron, she can encourage you to be as beautiful as a rose, despite your thorns. An “Iron Rose Sister”.
Wendy Neill
